OneDay, I have read that post, thank you, it holds much truth.
I have a specific question regarding setting boundaries vs controlling in a cake eating situation. So I'm looking more for advice that has a better probability of success that what I might do if I simply "do what I want". What I want is to not make a bad situation worse. And I "FEAR" that I might do just that.
I am struggling with this as well as I am new to all of this. I hope that you get your questions answered.
Me: 40 W: 39 D: 16 S: 21 R: 20 Years (married 18) 9/2013 W indicated that she wanted to leave.
