Both the working and climbing probably originate from my W.
Really? When I read this, I though I saw some of dad too.
Okay, so how can you use this information to get a new avenue of shared interest with your D? Maybe she can teach you a few things. Could be a new switch, since you said your role is mostly in the form of a teacher.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!