W texted me while I was out running errands and asked me to pick up some additional items at the grocery store. Said she was making chicken wings for dinner and if I wanted to join her for some wings and a movie after kids down. I said sure. She also had laundry going during our dinner/movie so I helped out folding clothes. Afterwards I helped with the dishes and then said thanks for the pleasant weekend and goodnight ...she said goodnight too and off to bed I went. No relationship talk about marriage, D or anything so I guess I consider that a good thing. She has a meeting tomorrow night from 6 to 9 so I said don't worry about the kids, I'll get them dinner and to bed. She said she would still pick them up from school. So today communication was good and we are "getting along". I don't know what to make of all this.
Don't read anything into it. She felt no pressure from you and apparently no conflict anywhere, so she felt relaxed.
Good job at not bringing up R talk.
You did right to help in your share of the house chores. Where a lot of LBH's mess up is when they try to do it all.
There will be good days and bad days. There will be days that you don't know what to call. Just keep moving forward and don't fall into ways that show desperation.
Men are their most attractive when women see them being confident and strong (even if she's just the renter).
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
