Why are you looking for YOUR answers from her ??? I didnt think I was. Im just trying to get a plan in place. What the heck am I suppose to do, just let the chips fall where they may?
Not at all...
This has to be YOUR plan for parenting.
Most dudes here would give their left nut to KNOW that they are gonna get 50/50 without a huge fight on their hands.
Read Scorp's thread the past couple days...
What I am saying is....
That YOU have to have YOUR plan in place FIRST.
And there is no more "we" or "us" when it comes to YOUR custody. Are you gonna call her for every decision that you have to make regarding them ???
Hey, can you come over here and tell me if their food is too hot ?
That ^^^, ain't gonna work anymore....
It is all about YOU, and what YOU need to do to provide for them on YOUR time with them....
Get your basic time worked out with her (which it appears that you have if Fri-Fri is intact), and the rest is up to you buddy...