In retrospect, I do wish I had called the police. The risks are far too great, and it's my kids at risk. Good advice
Just had a question, I've noticed there is huge variation on exposure. I believe the DB technique is to not expose the affair. I have wrestled with this a bit. While her family and my family immediate know, I would like to expose her in the online world where the two interact, and professionally as well. However , I haven't done this as I feel I am doing this to get a reaction out of her, as well as stop the affair, taking away some of the secrecy etc. Anyone that has asked I have told, and I am telling more people as time goes. This follows along with not protecting her anymore.
My DB coach has also advised against outing them. I have followed this advice as well. Any thoughts from people out there?
Thanks again for all the help . It's so nice to bounce ideas off others who have been through this type of thing
