H seeing FOW...again

[courageouswife]

I have an update...got a text from H asking if the kids told me what happened and if he would stop by...

He told his side of the situation...said the guy deserved it. Then told me about the guys injuries...said he is going to have to have reconstructive surgery. I asked H "did he DESERVE that?" He said no, that he probably went a little ballistic. Got a ticket for assault. Supposedly he and this guy have apologized to each other but I am wondering what will happen?

And yes, this guy is the one that OW was involved with. H volunteered that info. Anyone think that may have had something to do with the beating he got? Also, when this guy was egging H on, he must have been saying things about how H is living his life which also made him mad. He didn't say what the guy said but said that he already knows how he is living his life and he doesn't need someone else, especially this guy, telling him that....

He said that if this guy doesn't go then he will...it is too weird of a situation already. I just listened to him and then said that I was not comfortable with the kids going there if that guy is still there and the possibility of this could happen again. He said he was glad that I said that as he felt the same and that he would come here or take them out etc and bring them home afterward.

I have to say that I am glad that he accepted that without any argument. He is very sorry that the kids had to see that. I am having a hard to believing that he allowed this guy to move in in the first place knowing that he and OW had dated. This guy could easily press charges against H. He might need money paying his medical bills. I have a feeling this thing is going to get bigger and worse before it gets better.

I have wondered what it would take for H to hit his rock bottom. I have prayed for it to happen. I don't know if this is it or not and I would say break out the popcorn and enjoy the show but there is nothing about this to enjoy....it is all so so sad.