How do you feel about him asking to postpone the trip? Does that indicate to you that he still thinks he might want to take that trip with you at some point?
Originally Posted By: bluesgal
I'm curious to see how the trip plays out. Why does he want it postponed? Does he want to go with?
We don't have the ability to go on the trip unless both of us are there. It was part of the deal when we booked. So we either both go or no one goes.
My H has always said that he does not know what he wants. I think that he is afraid of making the wrong decision. He is comfortable sitting on the fence right now. So I look at his decision to postpone as him saying that he would prefer to not address the sitch right now and just push it off to a later date.
I guess that it is better that he wanted to postpone then out right cancel.
