I agree with Ken and GM (I think that is who mentioned this) regarding the breakdown of the relationship. Regardless of whether your x is in MLC (I'm 100% positive mine is)or not, there were problems in the relationship (I'm 100% positive of this in my own sitch too-just wasn't aware a couple of things bothered him).
Really. Look deep. My h and I rarely fought. We did snip for 2 months leading up to BD, but rarely fought. Think about this. My h did rewrite some of our history and he pointed out things that bothered him that I was unaware of at the time. However, when he brought them to my attenion, I began to see how they would bother him. It took some time to see these things would bother him. I just wasn't looking. What were some real issues?
And, the whole he is just too afraid to open up...yada, yada, yada. If he wants it, he will make the moves to get it.
3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer
