It is funny how your expectations flip. At first you are looking for your h to act like the good husband or father you knew. Now you expect him to let you down. I know I am always surprised if h doesn't sneer or glare at me or actually follows up on something.
You have a good system and it is great that grandparents are available to help.
Me 44 H 42 M 10 T 12 (at time of BD) Ss 20 16 S11 (special needs)
BD 9/13 H "unhappy for years" moves to seperate bedroom 10/13 EA/PA confirmed but denied S and I move out 3/15
