Need help saving my family - part 4

[Scorp7]

Thanks Wonka. I had spoken with a lawyer already about the financial matters. Basically, that is fairly straight forward, for the most part all assets and debts are split 50/50. If only custody of our kids was as straight forward.

I'd wanted to avoid using lawyers, my wife said the same thing several times. Does anyone have any ideas on a message I could send to reiterate that? If this does go the path of being a legal battle we could easily spend 50000 to 100000 on lawyers and the relationship between my W and I would be so destroyed I doubt we could co-parent in any way.