Wow I feel bad I was hard on you in the past. She's clearly confused and may I say imbalanced.

I think it's possible that two people can love each other but can't be married or live together. Perhaps this is the case here.

Your sitch is getting pretty complex, its getting more difficult to be an armchair therapist and help.

It's probably best to go back to plan A and focus on going dark and GALing.

Me: 43
W: 37
Together: 18
M: 15
D: 8 yrs old
ILYBNILWY: March 2011
She Filed for D: August 2011
She moved out: Sept 1, 2011
Reconciled: May 2012
Divorce Case dropped: July 2012