I wonder how many of them feel this way, but just don't act out like your wackadoo ex?

I say do whatever you can to stop the nonsense. File harassment and get a restraining order. At this point Bea, who cares what he thinks, just draw a legal boundary.

"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man

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