Well, he has pretty much decided to join the Navy once he graduates. So, we were discussing that fun little plan. He said he knows that we won't move with him. He was talking about how he is actually excited about this new experience. I told him that I wanted to apologize for refusing to move to Seattle with him. (a few friends and I were talking about this the other day) I told him that I realized that meant I was choosing my grandparents over him and that wasn't fair. He was my husband and that was a selfish act on my part. He said "Thank you. That is very big of you. I wondered about it at the time but didn't see the point in talking to you about it. I just wish you would have said this sooner."
Anyway, everything has been rolling along as usual. If you didn't know our marriage was on the rocks, I doubt you would be able to tell. He is buying my coffee in the morning, making me/us dinner at night, asking if he can get me anything, etc. I am being happy and interactive. I am trying to get up and out and do more things. This is his spring break so he will be home all week. He has plans to go shoot pool with his Dad one day this week but otherwise said he will be home. This morning he wanted to take us all to breakfast but my tummy is not happy so he just took the big kids.
Me: 33 / H: 36 M: 10y / T: 14y 3 kids BD: 2/22/14 Live in separation 3/8/14 H consult lawyer, says filing asap 4/24/14 H moved out 4/25/14 2nd time around. 1st separation 4y ago lasted a month