No M-I can see where you're coming from with your perspective. And yes, I understand that you either send her and appease him or not and be the bitch. Totally get that.

He did seem sincere with some comments and insight and it seems like an improvement to the complete steamroll emails he's sent you in the past. Or, this is just another form of manipulation.

Rock, meet hard place.


Me:33 H:35
M: 12 years
D-15 S-6
Bomb: 6-2013
OW: 11/2013
Kids and I moved out: 11/2013 when he continued to lie about affair
Kids and I moved back in 12/2013
H moved out 2/2014