"And if we don't send her, I think we send her a terrible message - if there's the potential for something to be difficult or uncomfortable for you, don't do it."
Like working out your marriage...
Yeah, that's going to be a tough one to STFU about.
I don't know, maybe it's that I am overreacting, or maybe it's because I know my H and his history. But the whole email just made me want to punch him in the face.
me: 44 XH: 42 M 11 years D10 and S8 Bomb drop 9/27/13 D final 7/1/14