I think that the email was decent and fair for the most part. There seems to be some truth to it...one part that did really bother me:
"And if we don't send her, I think we send her a terrible message - if there's the potential for something to be difficult or uncomfortable for you, don't do it."
Like working out your marriage...
As for what to do now, I have no good advice. I really think you are not sending her for the reasons you have given and not because you are overly protecting her from something difficult. It sounds like she has been on many field trips this year and I understand sitting this one out. But I am curious to see how you will work this out as many of us that are new to coparenting will have to figure out our way.
Me:33 H:35 M: 12 years D-15 S-6 Bomb: 6-2013 OW: 11/2013 Kids and I moved out: 11/2013 when he continued to lie about affair Kids and I moved back in 12/2013 H moved out 2/2014
