hi melissa ~~ i like the way your husband thinks . As hard as it is letting go, great lessons can be had for both d9 and yourself. I am 47 and still coping with letting go.
Good luck. Magic
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)