Bea, I'm very sorry that he's still at it. Your accountant and lawyer have responded to him about his allegations and that they were unfounded. I don't think he's going to be happy until he brings you to your knees and you have nothing left.
I think part of his problem is that he is miserable and not happy about how life didn't turn out the way he thought it would. He's not happy about the fact that you've moved on, made a life for yourself and yes, you are able to purchase a home, remodel and travel. He probably is so tied up w/expenses that he can't afford to do all of the things that you are doing and he can't stand the fact that you are happy w/your life. Bottom line...you are happy and he's not. He can't stand the fact that you aren't giving him the time of day and he wants your attention, positive or negative, but he doesn't realize that the way he's going about it will kill whatever he is trying to gain in the way of a relationship w/you and your family.
Continue to block his calls and do not respond to his emails, etc. It's time to pull out all of the legal action stops your lawyer can find. Have you spoken to your lawyer about filing harassment charges against him?
I think he's going to be a PIA until the day he's 6 feet under.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
