I'm in, wife's out

[25yearsmlc]

Also, Day 19 of no discussions turning into an argument/fight. This week has probably been the most trying in that regard.

I'm pretty sure I found out why she was being pissy with me on Sunday.

mind reading...

Long story short, she got caught in a bit of a lie. It's not a HUGE thing

Then drop it. Stop keeping a record of wrongs. It's a score card and it never helps a marriage. Ever. Besides, she has her own scorecard and on that, you are way behind. Lose the scorecard.


but she was kind of playing both sides of the coin with a couple friends of ours (husband & wife).

OMG, more mind reading and none of your business as well. Why are you letting this petty stuff happen, at all?

W said friend said something, I was talking to her husband about it not long after we separated who told his wife and his wife said she never said that....blah, blah, blah. Well, friends wife texted my W that she didn't appreciate her lying to me about something she said (her husband called me to apologize and didn't mean to get me into trouble. Told him no harm, no foul......women are crazy).

read your ^words again...how do you feel about how you described the event?


So W was mad at me that I told him what she said even though she was the one that lied. Haven't talked to W at all about it

^^Wow, You assume here, you mind read here, & you have NOT communicated at all with your w about it. So there's no way you know what she feels/thinks. YOU are being unfair, negative, and unproductive in this situation. Move on.. I am going to look at the rest of your comments in this one post and cross through what you have no control over, or what is not your business AND OR where you are mind reading...

but CLEARLY that's what her issue was with me. Again, going back to her comments on Sunday about her having to be careful what she says to me. The stars lined up WAYYY to well for that not to be true.

Which makes me laugh. And W knows not to even bring it up because she knows she's wrong. She lied and is mad that I facilitated her getting caught in her own lie (even though I didn't even mean to....I thought she was just telling me the truth).

Does that clarify anything for you, about you?