Oh, and dinner last night with GF and her BF went great. Everyone had a good time... lots of joking and laughing. W seemed plenty comfortable once things got underway. GF said this morning she had a great time also.
BF is a cardiologist, and his stories were interesting. Divorced, he was the only one of the 4 of us who had kids. And now grandkids! Nice guy and all, but watching GF interact with him made me feel W and I will still be together long after their relationship is done and gone.
W may not be ready to be physical with me, but she most certainly is not doing anyone else either! Yay! Maybe a little more time for her to figure her stuff out is in order. (darn it all!)
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
Maybe a little more time for her to figure her stuff out is in order. 
(darn it all!)