Sorry you're still having to deal with this at such a level. Each situation is different, but yes there are several who have. Mine still has a tremendous amount of animosity toward me, and similar to you I've wondered why it is as if I did something to her instead of the other way around. As close as I can figure, it's an attempt to not face her own actions and thoughts.
Knowing it's not about me, helps me to step back and feel sorry for people who are trying so hard to help themselves by trying to hurt others.
In your case, you may want to check with a lawyer and see if you can make a motion to stop the frivolous and costly lawsuits as an undue burden on the courts and yourself. Perhaps there is some sort of protection the legal system can offer.
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
