How the hell do you express a boundary without it getting blow up into a huge argument about the past? I mean, everything got thrown into this argument. Wtf!!
It's the ex's night with him tonight but she asked if I could take him tonight. Usually I just stfu and agree. This time I actually listened to her because yesterday she wanted me to speak up about my feelings. So I did just that. I ASKED why she wanted s3 to come over. I was not accusing but she took it that way.
It went into a whole tirade about how she "knows" I'm pissed off that she's dating someone. I have not shown anger or anything negative regarding this guy. I don't talk about him to her.
The argument got really nasty. Her hanging up on me, me going over to her place to explain I was not accusing.
Ugh.
I think it's either time to go dim or just forget the past 6 years even happened. Man, the sh*t she was saying was so painful to hear.
Me-35 Com law-28 S-3 T-6 yrs w/14 mnth bu 1st bu- 2/2012 Rec-4/2013 2nd bu-10/2013 IC-2 yrs(anger issues) MC- 5 mnths-fail OM~1/1/14 OM dumped 6/4/14 New OM ~10/4/14
