Hi, I have been reading along from time to time, and posting occasionally, but getting on with life. This is an update on my strange xh. We have now lived separately for over 8 years, and the divorce was finalised more than 3 years ago (took two years but there we are)

Most recently my xh has been attempting to sue me for assets which he says (incorrectly) belong to him. This would involve overturning the divorce settlement. So I have been dealing with threats of legal action for nearly 9 months, and I thought he had exhausted every avenue. How wrong I was.

The latest antic is to have me accused of criminal fraud! So I am having to get my accountant to write to the companies regulator, who has received allegations from my xh that my company was wound up incorrectly. Offences which carry up to a seven year prison sentence.

Needless to say I did not commit fraud - my accountant did everything on my behalf, and since he has acted for me for more than 20 years, I do not think has committed fraud on my behalf.

What I do not understand is the level of animosity that he still has towards me. It is as if I left him, and then did all I could be ruin him, instead of vice versa.

I have blocked his emails, and do not take phone calls from him, so there is no contact, but I honestly do not know what to do. I just feel as if it will never ever stop. It isn't simply annoying, it is threatening, and a little frightening.

Has anyone else had this kind of threatening behaviour go on for so many years? Each allegation takes time and money to deal with.