Are you still communicating through your MIL? Are you sure it is wife writing these messages? Could your wife be doing exactly what her parents want? One of the bonuses of dealing with a lawyer is the fact that you and her will negotiate through attornies. She will have to step up to the plate. Her attorney is going to deal with her not her parents. As Melissa said she had the option to walk away but YOU get to handle your divorce any way you want.
W-38 H-42 T-11 M-8 C-6,2,6 months BD-Oct 1 2013 DFiled-Jan 6 2014 Went Dark - April 4, 2014