3boyz, I agree that you should not concern yourself with the financial stuff. Not because it's none of your business, but because he's not doing anything that is harming you or the boys. Like someone else mentioned, if the opposite starts happening (he starts spending large amounts of money that is out of the ordinary), then you may want to say something.
I'm curious about the time you spend with H. How do you do that? How does that fit in with the boundary that you are not friends with your H as long as he is with OW? Do you think you are able to spend time with him without having any expectations or increased hope?
me: 44 XH: 42 M 11 years D10 and S8 Bomb drop 9/27/13 D final 7/1/14
