That's fair enough. Forgetting everything else for a moment, what do you WANT to do with the house? I saw you were asked a few pages back and you mentioned what you could do but not what you want to do.
Me: 31, W: 29 T: 4 M: 2 Kids: 3 (SS: 7, SD: 4, D: 3) Separated, still living together: Nov 2013 Separate bedrooms: Feb 2014 W working away; kids with me: Nov 2014