Is there any chance you could plan a boys weekend with some friends? That way you can keep up with your support but you disappear and she has to fend for herself.


Me: 31, W: 29
T: 4 M: 2
Kids: 3 (SS: 7, SD: 4, D: 3)
Separated, still living together: Nov 2013
Separate bedrooms: Feb 2014
W working away; kids with me: Nov 2014