Thanks for the reality check. I really did need a 2x4 to the head to knock some sense in me. I need to focus and remind myself this is about me. I can't control her. Doesn't matter if she thinks I've given up on the M or not ..she has to want it and that's up to her.


Me: 47
Her: 45
M 18 years
T 22 years
S-6 D-9
Separate rooms 1/5/14
Wife filed for divorce 2/5/14