Spectators in life, "occupy space". But Dad's celebrate their kids' birthdays. Please do that with/for her.
And I think sandi(?) had a great idea about you inviting your d along with you for a shopping trip for YOU to update your wardrobe. My d's loved buying their dad clothes "if he promises to wear it!" And he does.
Luke, you have a good mind, a good heart and a healthy body.
That is a winning combination. Enjoy
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