.i was just shocked as we have always gone to church together and there is more detachment on her part day by day and my part as well with working on GAL/180/lrt ....someone please tell me this is the way it must be to have a chance of reconciling.
Sorry, but this is NOT the way it must be to reconcile!!! You are getting further away from reconciling.
It is fine to vent, as long as I can too. You constantly put pressure on her. Calling her pet names is pressure.. Expecting her to follow traditional routines is pressure. Asking her if she is coming to the game is pressure. And I don't know the heck you were doing asking her anything about preparing your beds. Seriously? ASKING HER QUESTIONS about her activities is extreme pressure! She sees all of this as you smothering her. That is why she reacted like she did. Don't you get it?
Remember, she is preparing for a future without you. She isn't interested in saving the M. Trying to convince yourself that this is all part of getting the chance o reconcile, is you living in denial. She will be out the door as soon as she can make it happen. So, I suggest you get cracking with the LRT instead of acting like you are still in a cozy M.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
