I can only say that my mother is bipolar and has been that way for 60 years of my life. She left my father who has now passed away over 20 years ago, she still has nothing good to say about him and he really never did anything "wrong" other than try to stand by her and help her. Yes he moved on after she divorced him, he was lonely.
I will never get closure from her because she is not dealing with a full deck of cards. What make you think that your exH is? I am sure that he has many issues. I dont think we can have those types of expectations.
