Part 2-H moving out

[Georgiabelle]

Thanks Bluesgal. H texted me today to ask when spring break was. It happens to be the week of oldest son's birthday. I know h would not go ( I'm not mind reading but rather 100% he could not go to Disney with kids in his current state ). However , I did say, " you are welcome to join us if you like." He said mentally he could not do that. I told him I understood and hoped he had a nice remainder of the day. H has a difficult time being around the kids ( and maybe around me too!) so I knew he would decline.

I'm thinking telling him he could join us was fine and I knew he would not. Since the kids have never been... Not sure if that was following DB but thought it was appropriate. And I certainly had no expectations.