I feel W and I are growing more distant day by day. I asked W about going to 11am mass tomorrow and then if her and our daughter were going to come watch our sons basketball game that I coach and she said "i dont know what I'm doing" ...i was just shocked as we have always gone to church together and there is more detachment on her part day by day and my part as well with working on GAL/180/lrt ....someone please tell me this is the way it must be to have a chance of reconciling. I feel i need to at least remind her that I want this M and will give her the space she needs but for her to not construe that as me giving up. I know that's pursuing and she will probably say she's done with trying and given me enough chances ...but by my recent actions I don't want her to think I've given up. Help!
Me: 47 Her: 45 M 18 years T 22 years S-6 D-9 Separate rooms 1/5/14 Wife filed for divorce 2/5/14