Something I thought of last night. I wanted to thank my wife for spending the evening with me but it would have sounded contrived to me. DB/DR say "celebrate the 5%" but I feel that everyone has a natural 'bullsh!t detector' and I feel that celebrating the 5% would work better if it was genuine.

Any thoughts?

Me: 31, W: 29
T: 4 M: 2
Kids: 3 (SS: 7, SD: 4, D: 3)
Separated, still living together: Nov 2013
Separate bedrooms: Feb 2014
W working away; kids with me: Nov 2014