I guess I'll text her back and let her when I truly will be home. [/quote]

Well after I let her know I would be home early she told me she wasn't going out because my daughter was having a friend sleep over. So I stopped in at the llocal pub and a few friends were there so I stayed and chatted and got home at 1. W was up so I thought since it was the weekend I would suggest I get our bed for the weekend ...she said no ..in the morning wife on Ipad looking at houses ..i just made a remark saying "looking to move" ..she said can't you give me space
..i am really working at this but it is so hard ...need to keep thinking W is just roomate ...thanks for letting me just vent here

Me: 47
Her: 45
M 18 years
T 22 years
S-6 D-9
Separate rooms 1/5/14
Wife filed for divorce 2/5/14