Thank you, Job. I didn't even think about dinner being a pursuing behavior. I did thank him then asked if he had anything he wanted to watch. He mentioned one of the shows I usually record when I work. So we watched that then I went to bed with the littlest one. This morning he is going to the DMV to get his motorcycle permit. Before he left he asked if I waned a coffee on his way home.

This is going to be harder than last time but I think I can wade my way through it. I appreciate the help and advice. I am in for the long bumpy road.


Me: 33 / H: 36
M: 10y / T: 14y
3 kids
BD: 2/22/14
Live in separation 3/8/14
H consult lawyer, says filing asap 4/24/14
H moved out 4/25/14
2nd time around. 1st separation 4y ago lasted a month