So, that's where we are, lovethehub. This is the story of our marriage; she makes rage-filled, irrational choices, no matter how calm and supportive I am.
I hope this scenario explains better what I'm up against! 27 days until dissolution/divorce is finalized.
It doesn't sound like there is anything different you could have done in this situation. My concern for your reconciliation has always been that it appears that you only see her part and, if this is true, I guarantee she knew it. It also appeared that you felt superior to her. I am saying appeared because I don't know this is true, I can only go by how things come across in a post.
Either way, I am sorry things are where they are because I hate to see anyone D and, after having gone through it, I believe it is harder to deal with each other after the D than before.
M 46 H 44 D 12 S 8 M 9 T 11 BD 2/15/13 "Makes sense to stay together" 5/12/13 Agree we are 'healing' 7/13 Definitely Piecing 9/13
