I agree but I don't see how we could split time with the kids unless I'm there? For the kids to be with me half the time they need to be in their usual school. Since I'm four hours away right now there is not way we could split time if I stay where I am.

Are you saying I should just say "I propose that we alternate weeks with the children, as it is important for them to have equal time with both parents." and let her fill in the blank about me needing to be there?


Me-40,W-37
D7, D5, S3
Separated Oct 3/2013
T 11 YRS
M 7 YRS