"This new job option really could be a game changer for us."
I have definitely been the grumpy downer for the past few years as well. I freely admit that was the case and I was guilty as charged. I'm glad he's had what sounds like a breakthrough moment and I hope he continues his momentum in a positive direction.
Don't forget that guys like "words of reassurance" from girls, so take advantage to ask him how he feels about his decision to pursue what he's pursing and if you like how it's going...then tell him. As long as it is genuine and heartfelt.
You seem like things are on a more positive track...keep us posted.
Me: 42 WAW: 37 Kids: 0 Separated: 06APR13 M:7 Years, T:10 years WAW states she wants to "move on": 01JUL13 "Courage is the standing army of the soul which keeps it from conquest, pillage, & slavery."