Ok. Makes sense. I won't do anything about her sort of midlife crisis (I guess women do get this as well as I feel this is kinda what she reverting to)

I have set two goals for next week:

- I will join a singing and drumming class at church. This will give me some time for me. I
- I can certainly work in increasing my income. I am positive that in the next two months I can cover more than enough to have her either stay at home or just get a part time job that will take her stress away. Now, my only concern is that she may just take the opportunity to plan her exit faster but either way, I may be doing the right thing by showing her I can support our needs. I must add that in years past, her dream was to be a stay home mom or just to have a part time job.

Me: 37, WAW 33, M 13 years
Kids: Boy: 4, Girl: 8
Separated: 10/24/13
DB since: 12/14/13
Big D talk started: 1/1/14 (Not served yet)
Still living together/Separate rooms