Bug, good to see you are making some progress. I’m learning about patience too.
I remember when I read one of your previous posts when you said that you decided to give it a try with H. How sure were you about wanting to try with your H instead of starting new with somebody else? I can see that the reconciliation process is a lot of work, at least on your part anyway. So, were you absolutely determined to make it work? Do you still have any doubts?
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state