Thank you for your response. The MC was both our ideas so needless to say I was surprised. Our son is 10 and sure he knows something is going on. He asked W why she sleeps upstairs in the other bedroom.
Part of me feels at peace not hanging in limbo.
Should I begin to separate bank accts or just keep everything the same?
Me: 55, W: 46 T: 17 M: 15 S: 10 3 S prev M 25 23 21 Unhappy 10/12 Asked to move out 1/14 NILWY 2/14 Sep rooms: 1/14 BD 3/14 W filed 5/14 Trial 12/14