Thank you for your response. The MC was both our ideas so needless to say I was surprised. Our son is 10 and sure he knows something is going on. He asked W why she sleeps upstairs in the other bedroom.

Part of me feels at peace not hanging in limbo.

Should I begin to separate bank accts or just keep everything the same?


Me: 55, W: 46
T: 17 M: 15
S: 10
3 S prev M
25 23 21
Unhappy 10/12
Asked to move out 1/14
NILWY 2/14
Sep rooms: 1/14
BD 3/14
W filed 5/14
Trial 12/14


Do the right thing - no reason needed