Well a bit of an update .

I've been trying to get a schedule established , but she is refusing , and says I'll have to take her to court. Any disagreements we have had are revolving around this. I have pulled back and am not mean, but am much less supportive. I have also removed wedding pictures and am no longer wearing my ring. Any thoughts on this? I look at it as we are separated, and I need to move on myself. Trying to change my role as both starsky and Sandi2 have recommended. It is indeed hard as I am tempted to keep her close to me as much as I can.

I'm not snooping, spying etc, just trying to go on with my life. Will take time for sure. Thanks again for all the advice

Cheers


Me: 40
Wife: 38
M: 10. T: 18
S: 8, D: 6, S: 4
BD 02/01/14
Asked her to leave 02/01/14

Keeping the dream alive