melissa

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If you were in your H's position, what would you want? Because at some point you are going to disagree with something he does while the kids are with him.

That isn't meant to sound like a threat but rather, really think about what that would feel like. We can't expect to get any better than we give.

I don't want to go against your motherly instinct, I strongly believe in the power of that. I think your D has had a tough 6 months and may need a day off as I said earlier, but sometimes we have to do things in the context of the bigger picture.

Good luck, tough decision.