oH... I know I am not cured... I state it regularly that I am a work in progress..
I do not analyze his every move.... I analyze and obsess over how to respond. My reactions/responses. There is a difference. I obsess/fret over MY stuff, not his. This might be considered hyper-analyzing MY moves, not his.
I am not discussing reconciliation and talking about buying a house... he is.
"theres nothing wrong with watching his actions, as long as you dont let it affect you either way. you need to become an impartial observer. you have to be emotionally unaffected by whatever his actions are."...... this is what I stated I am working on. Trying to have hope but without expectations. Tuff stuff.
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H just hung up on me.... he was annoyed at my answers in response to a situation with our accountant. He ended with "do what you want" and hung up. Old Magic, would call and call and repeatedly try to "fix" the situation. New magic (change before xmas)... let him be. Go be angry. Let him call back, when he has calmed down.
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
