I hate being on moderation, waiting for things to show up is a killer. Anyway. My quesiton is, in my sitch, where i am the one who had the EA, and we are now sepetated, do i do the GAL? I want to save my marriage at any cost, but since i had the EA, this has caused my W to want the seperation, so i feel obligated to beg and plead. The more i read on hear thats the worse thing to do, but since i am the cause.....so confused. How long is one on moderation?
