I know I am new and I believe this forum is support for those who were a WAS but I wanted some advice concerning my WAW...

My wife now is barely home, doesn't spend a whole lot of time with our D15. When she is home she sits on the couch, plays on her phone and watches TV.

I am guessing this is the description of a WAW? Also, as a WAS did anyone also alienate themselves from family members? The reason I ask is that her parents and brother's family live just 5 minutes away and she doesn't visit them like she once did.

Any help would be greatly appreciated.


Me: 40
W: 39
D: 16
S: 21
R: 20 Years (married 18)
9/2013 W indicated that she wanted to leave.