Friday, W comes in the room while I'm sleeping and she tells me she was sorry for acting that way but she is now feeling angry. I asked her why and she said because you have changed now you didn't care then to change when I was telling you we had problems and most men do this now, change at the 11th hour and then just go back to the way they were if we stick it out. I understand why you would think that and yes I took you for granted then, I do know I cared and still loved you when I took you for granted even though you didn't think so. I do know now that I'm going to follow GOD and continue to be a better man. W said you tried that before and I said yes I became wayward. W said I know there's no guarantees and I said your right. I then said the best marriages have to hit rock bottom and that’s where were at and all we can do is go up. I said you mentioned to me giving you some info on building it back up and she said right and you haven’t sent me anything and I don't know if I even want to. I said ok. I then told her good bye and to have a good day at work and she said probably not, I asked why because were understaffed and extremely busy I just oh. she said bye.
How do I go about giving her info on how to reconcille on this M and what information do I give. I know this site is great, Marriage builders and even Marriage max by Morte Fortel. I don't want to be Pushy I just want a chance and i don't know how to do this. I have one more DB Coach session I will call Chuck and hopefully he can help
