I have been talking to a DB coach, He did ask me what good is it going to do you if she is doing something like an EA or PA, I can't stop it. The DB coach has been great. He told me to just lovingly detach so much harder said then done.
Now up to date since last Sunday, this day was great with the baby, we even made love that night We had good day Monday she has warmed up to me a little bit. My DB coach said its good to pursue her a little because she felt like I neglected her by taking her for granted and not paying attention to her.
Tuesday I surprised her with a bath drawn and a massage. I sent her text telling her how much I truly appreciated her for everything she has done for me. I did not put any expectation on this. I told her she deserved it. She loved it from what I could tell. She even told me you deserve some sex for doing this but I'm so tired. I said that’s ok just go to sleep. She asked are you mad I said no.
