Sunday March 2, 2014. My W went to church by herself and I went with my D. My W calls to let me know she has her GF baby he's about 1 1/2 yrs old, he's really awesome. My W asked how the service was and I said great and it was about the end times. I asked her what her service was about and she stated forgiveness and some other stuff as she tells me this she puts her head down. I didn't want to push the issue so we began to play with the baby.
W asked me to stay home with her so we could enjoy the baby, so I agreed. She has complained in the past that I didn't make her a priority, so I made her one instead of going to work. My W laid her head on my lap as we watched a Disney movie with the baby. W asked me something along the lines of maybe we can work this out and if I could send her some information on how to restore our marriage.
I'm going to back up to the Wednesday Feb 26, 2014. I was on my way to work and work called me asking if I wanted the day off so I said sure. I went home changed my uniform and then went to target to pick up some razors ect... My W works right at the same corner of the store I went to and I looked over and didn't see her car so I drove the entire parking lot and no car she told me she had to work late because of a seminar. I checked the parking lot of the store I went to because sometimes they park there. I didn't see her car at all. This was around 6:30pm. I finally call her office and the answering service answers and said they are closed. Now mind you I don't have W's cell phone number, she did get a new cell phone on 2/13/14 when she filed for D. I go home and she comes home around 10:30pm. She comes in hangs her coat up and then right in the shower. I smell this strong odor of like fire wood or something as she walked by. I smelled her coat and it was strong. This is the second time I have smelled this. I smelled that same smell on her coat on Saturday when she got home at 12:45 am from her GF house, she said she was cleaning it with her. I asked if she worked late and she said yep just got out a little bit ago. I said well I got off early and came home because earlier you asked when we could talk about the tax money. So figured today would be good, but I went to the store and I didn't see your car, she said oh I parked in the store parking lot. I said well I went to that store to pick up some stuff. W why did you go to that store, Me, Because its cheap there. I said I did call but the answering service picked up and said the office was closed. There was a seminar going on but she wasn't there. I said well you weren’t there,W says, Oh what your stalking your wife now detective in a very defensive voice. I also asked why she smelled like smoke she said I don't know what your talking about and began to turn it all on me. I just simply said if something is going on it has to end and it's not my deal breaker. she said nothing is going on and some of us girls went to get a drink after work.
I just ended up dropping the whole situation and haven’t mentioned it since.
